Is he into me...or not?
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| Wed, 09-14-2005 - 2:29pm |
All right, I'll try and keep this short. I went on a date last Friday with this guy, who I was attracted to...we went out on a second date yesterday, but I'm a little baffled because--
I asked him how his day was, and he was like, yucky, I got called into work at the last minute, and I can only be here for an hour and half, "but now I'm with you. so things are looking up". We talked for an hour and 15 minutes--actually he did most of the talking this time, and quite frankly, seemed a little distracted...and we left, but he asked me if I wanted to check out the cd store near the coffeehouse, so we walked...and on the way he was telling me his schedule for the week, which was pretty much booked solid, and he said, "...and Monday, I'm off"...to which I said, "Oh, I might have another day off Monday, but I dont' know yet!" To which he said, "Really? Maybe we can do something then?" so I said that would be great. Anyway, we talked a bit more, he walked me back to my car, and asked for a ride to his car (which was parked by the CD store, by the way!) I am also feelign confused about this whole thing because I didnt' get any physical contact from him (I had touched him a few times though), and I'm not sure what he was thinking, like, "oh, I like this girl...and want to hang out with her" or "I liek this girl, and maybe I wanna date her"....at the end of the date, he said, "Well, I'll call you, or you call me, we'll see if we can do somethign about Monday".
Several of my friends have told me: Dont' call him! Let him call you! One other friend (a guy) said, "Call him, he's testing you to see how interested you are in doign something, that's why his comment about him calling, or you calling is so ambigous")
I guess I just want to see what kinds of input or insight you guys may have.

What he should have said is, "That is great you might be free Monday, let's go out to dinner."
But he didn't. Let's see if he calls you.