Is he the one

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Registered: 09-13-2004
Is he the one
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Mon, 09-13-2004 - 5:35pm
I have been dating this guy for 2 months. I meet him through one of my sisters, she told him a lot about me. So when we first meet, i was scaried because I really didn't know that much about him. It was the fourth of July weekend and my parents allowed him and my sisters boyfriend to stay the weekend. That first night my father had to work was not there, my mother on the other hand was, but she left everyone alone and let us all hang out in our livingroom. No one went to sleep until 5 in the moring. When I first saw him, I didn't really think of anything, I mean he is cute but I wasn't really wanting a relationship at the time. After we talk though and I got to know him, I fell hard for him. I started dating him, and he lives in another state. He is about an hour and half drive from my house. I moved since this to finish College and he came down to see me for my birthday, and we were talking and he told me he loves me and I love me, and then he asked me if I could see my self marrying him. I of course said Yes. I want to, but I am scaried because I don't know if I could lose his love, like what if we got marryied and it didn't last, what am I to do. Help me, cause I feel he is the one. Sincerly Hearts
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Mon, 09-13-2004 - 5:44pm
Relax, there's no rush. You're young and you've only been dating a few months. If you two are meant to be together, it will work out that way. That said, you have a lot of time to get to know each other. If you do become engaged, it doesn't mean you have to get married right away either. You can wait.

Good luck!

Alison

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