Is he a player?
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| Sun, 01-29-2006 - 5:18pm |
Hi everyone,
I went on a date with this guy last night, he took me to a few bars in the city and we had an awesome time talking and the like and I can say I really enjoyed myself. I was interested in knowing whether he had ever cheated on his past girlfriends and he said he had once, but the relationship was almost over anyway. Then when we were leaving, he went to use the bathroom and while he was waiting in line, there were 2 girls dancing with each other and he just would not stop staring and I also felt that he was checking out other women during the night...also, has anyone ever had a "gut" feeling that the guy you are on a date with might be a little bit of a player? I had this gut feeling, just the way he came across to me. Of course, I thought that about someone else and I was very wrong but I just feel like this guy has more wandering eyes than what I am used to. I am not sure if I would like to pursue a relationship with him, but it is early anyway...what do you think, how do you spot a player?

The first thing is that your "gut" feelings about a person are usually right.
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I agree with the advice that it *could* be just bad manners..... or it could be your gut instince is entirely correct. I'd give it another date, and pay attention to his actions to you. Its my experience that if a guy is truly interested in *you*, that you are going to feel like the absolute center of his universe during that date. But in terms of this guy, give him another chance.... and see what happens.
If his eyes do wander, I'd be tempted to look obviously in the same direction he is, so he knows you've seen him. ;0)