He said he'd called, but hasn't...

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Registered: 07-01-2003
He said he'd called, but hasn't...
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Fri, 12-29-2006 - 11:25pm
I met a guy on a plane when I was going back home to NJ for Thanksgiving. We started talking and he was going home to see his family too. I have to say I was so excited because this guy was cute and so nice and stuff like this doesn't happen too often. We eventually exchanged numbers and walked down to baggage together and he waited with me for my mom to come. Two days later on Thanksgiving I sent him a text message and we sent a few back and forth and he said he was very glad he got to meet me. I flew back the next day and he called me and left me a message, but I didn't call him back till 2 days later when I knew he would be flying back. I left him a message, but didn't hear from him to real late that night when he sent me a text message. THen, a week went by and I didn't hear from him so I sent him a text message and told him to call me if he wanted to. He sent me one back saying he was thinking about me and thought I forgot about him. He asked when he would be able to see me again and we realized we were both leaving again for NJ on the same day so we said we would try to meet up at the airport. I told him to call me, but I didn't hear from him till I was at the airport. He had gotten a flight around the time I was leaving, but it turned out we were at two different terminals and didn't see each other. He said he wanted to see me though and would be in contact. So, I told him to give me a call. It's now been a little over a week and I haven't heard from him..I sent him a text message on Christmas just to say Merry Christmas, but never heard back. I don't know what to do now..I really thought he would call..he just seemed so nice and sincere. What should I do??
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Sat, 12-30-2006 - 3:28pm

It seems you only communcate through text messages. Why not call?

I would call him one more time. just to chat and if he suggests meeting then go for it if not then drop the whole thing. He might be a shy guy so thats why I suggest you call another time when you know he will pick up. But there is no need to overdo it and keep calling as he might be simply not interested. With the back and forth it can be that he is interested but shy or that he is not interested but feels obliged to respond.
It is confusing I know but you have to make one more effort to be sure.
Goodluck