He said I love you and I wasn't ready!

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Registered: 03-25-2004
He said I love you and I wasn't ready!
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Wed, 05-05-2004 - 7:14pm
Hi all --

I could use some advice...I've been dating my boyfriend for over 2 months now. I really feel very strongly about him, but I'm just not sure if I'm in love with him yet. He told me he loved me and I told him I wasn't quite there yet, but that I felt very strongly for him. I could tell he was disapointed and that he expected to hear it back. I just don't want him to turn tail and run -- he flat out said he shouldn't have said anything yet. However I didn't feel like I could say I love you yet and truly mean it. Do you think I did the right thing?? Incidently, we talked for like 2 hours after the "i love you" proclaimation and I think he's okay and we're okay together but there's still a bit of weirdness between us. Has this happened to anyone else?? Thanks!!

Sophie

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Wed, 05-05-2004 - 8:45pm
Sophie,