he says "i love you" lightly

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Registered: 09-20-2004
he says "i love you" lightly
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Mon, 09-20-2004 - 5:44am
i've been dating this guy and i really like him...but sometimes he says i love you in a way that catches me offguard and i don't know how to react. when i get upset with him (but in a jokingly way as we do a lot) he'll say, "jay, i love you" to me, but in the same kind of light-hearted tone. and another time i asked him what his mother thought of me, he said "she loves you...my mom loves any girl i love." so my question is...what's up with that? i thought guys try to stay away from that word. and me and this guy have only been hooking up for a few weeks (but we were semi-friends for about 4 years).


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Registered: 07-24-2003
Mon, 09-20-2004 - 10:27pm
Hello jayjay!