he says it but doesnt show it !

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2004
he says it but doesnt show it !
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Mon, 12-06-2004 - 12:20pm
hey... i'm a 20 year old girl in a long distance relationship..thats not my problem though...he asked me out 2yrs ago but i refused coz he was leaving the country..we moved on with our lives ,he was seeing another girl for these 2yrs..serious n i was just stuck with flings(we still had a soft corner 4 each other) but recently when he came back i got to know he broke up with his girlfriend ,he told my friend he still liked me n i was on the top of the world n without wasting anymore time i asked him out ..now my problem starts... from the very begining when we started dating i never felt special..never! we would meet every day but there was sumthing missing but i thought i was just expecting too much n let it go....he left after about 20 days.nyways i was hoping against hope that he would change after he went back..but he would just call once in a week n we could never go beyond the small talk.. he never did anything wrong but he never did anything right ! u know it was just that he never liked me the way i wanted him to ! it was definately not reason enough to break up but i was just not happy !it was killing me !so 1 day i gathered the guts to talk to him about it n even before i could cum to the point he knew what i was talking about he said sorry n we decided to work on it ! he is still the same n i don't have the heart to break up ! probably thats how he is! would it be fair to break up !help me !
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2004
Mon, 12-06-2004 - 3:31pm
If he isn't treating special, then you should leave. What is the point of being in a relationship where you don't feel special? You will find another guy, I am sure of it - and one who will treat you the way you should be treated.