Is he still interested or not?

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Registered: 04-26-2003
Is he still interested or not?
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Wed, 06-30-2004 - 11:25am
I have (or had) been casually dating a guy named Ethan for the past 2.5 weeks and everything was going great until I started meddling with unresolved romantic issues between me and another guy named Sean (who also happens to be one of Ethan's friends and roommates).

I was not trying to get back together with Sean. Instead, I was trying to get some closure. However, when I tried talking to Sean, we ended up in a nasty argument.

Ethan called me a few days after my argument with Sean and told me to call him back after I got things sorted out.

So, last night I called Sean and apologized. Sean said he was sorry as well and now everything appears to be cool between us. In fact, Sean invited me to hang out with him Thursday night at a club and he said he might visit me at my workplace Friday afternoon.

Immediately after talking to Sean last night, I talked to Ethan. I asked him if everything was cool between him and I, and he agreed that everything was cool between us. However, he was very short with me. And as we were about to hang up, all he said was "I'll talk to you later" in a very casual, nonchalant tone. He did NOT say, "I'll call you at ." He said he was tired and maybe that is the reason why he was not very talkative. But, I wonder...if it's over between me and Ethan? Should I call him? Or should I wait for him to call me (if he ever does)?

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Registered: 05-26-2004
Wed, 06-30-2004 - 11:27am
It sounds as if your unresolved issues with Sean might have short circuited any potential w/ Ethan.
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Registered: 07-24-2003
Wed, 06-30-2004 - 12:36pm
Hello again anna_bean!