is he still in love with me?
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is he still in love with me?
| Fri, 10-29-2004 - 4:03am |
we were on the same class before & started a good kind of friendship... from his sarcasms to his non stop humors, we both become at ease with each other. before we knew it, our friends started noticing a glow on our faces... next thing we knew, we fell for each other. he never did put so much effort on any other girl before, except me... some of our girl friends loved him, but he stood out for what he feels for me... we went steady for a couple of months, but it didn't took long for him to call it quits. there was no 3rd party involved, instead, we didn't had too much time & communication which led to our break up... few days after the break up, i saw him lonely & he started asking our friends some things about me, & that went on for months. within a year, he had 2 other relationships, but none of those took long... & he seemed not affected after their break up. we're still good friends, but he usually ask me questions if i already have a boyfriend, or how many boyfriends have i had... but i didn't answer those questions seriouly. 2 years have past, everytime we hang-out or went for an outting, he tends to give me signs. he even have that habit of getting jealous on some of our guy friends whenever they're close by. he could still remember certain details about me which flatters me at times. whenever we meet, he gives one of our girl friend a handshake & a kiss on the cheek, he gives me a handshake as well but tells me that "no need for kisses on the cheek, people might put a malice on it!" he also told me on the phone that he's thru committing on a relationship with any girl on our circle... but, what is holding him from looking for another girl for more than a year? are those signs he is sending me mean something? is he still waiting for me to reconcile with him, without asking me personally? or am i just being paranoid?

What the 2 of you have together is A GOOD FRIENDSHIP! That's it! He's comfortable in your presence and vice versa.....BUT....
The man is preoccupied with other things! It doesn't sound like he has any time for women at all. However...whether he looks for another girl or not ISN'T ANY OF YOUR BUSINESS!
Look...if the 2 of you enjoy your friendship the way it is...and aren't inhibited about discussing whether there's another man or woman in your lives...that's fine! But neither one of you is under any obligation to share any personal information you don't wish to share...with ANYBODY!
Pianoguy