He texted me a pic of his anatomy!??
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He texted me a pic of his anatomy!??
| Tue, 05-23-2006 - 1:44am |
Oh my gosh, I can't believe this guy just did this! I dated this guy a few times, and I slept with him twice since and now he texted my phone a picture of his private anatomy part in "action"! I was so shocked. Is this normal? Or is this a bad sign - a sign that the only thing he thinks about me is a sex object and not a whole person? I can't believe he sent this to me!! What was/is he thinking? Do real boyfriends do this thing this day and age? Is this normal and I jsut don't know about it yet? (been out of the dating scenee for a while) Or is this not normal and only sleazy people do this to people they don't respect? I feel this is too way too raunchy for my tastes, and far beneath me. or am I being too much a prude and it's not really that big a deal? Should I feel offended or not? Is this normal or not? How should I take this???

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Cheryl
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I've had a man I barely knew send me a lovely picture of his penis. I'm no psychological expert but I think the reasons men do this are as follows:
1) Some have a perverted streak that enjoy doing the taboo. They figure you will be embarrassed and won't tell anyone.
2) It is a form of sexual harassment. Some people enjoy making others feel uncomfortable, and get something from it.
3) They feel they have an outside chance of starting a sexual diologue with you that may lead to sex, video sex, sex-charged emails and perhaps more.
Should you feel offended? Probably. Is this normal? No.
My suggestion would be to cease all communication with this man, unless you like this sort of thing.
No, you are not being a prude.
Oh, GROSS!!! That is truly disgusting, IMO.
No, to me that's not "normal". I wouldn't continue to see the guy, because to me, there's nothing he could say or do that would outweigh the incredible *wrongness* of doing something like that!!!
Sheri
I agree.
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