He told me he loves me w/o meeting

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Registered: 05-20-2004
He told me he loves me w/o meeting
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Thu, 10-07-2004 - 1:43pm
Okay...I usually know what to say if a guy is not into you...but this guy is into me. Howver the draw back here is that we haven't met face to face yet. He is stationed in Iraq. We met online. He calls me everyday. We have shared everything we can possibly share at this point. We email and when he can't get to a phone we can chat on messenger. There is chat chemistry and phone chemistry. I really like the person he presents himself to be. I have met the emotional needy type before and I am immdediately turned off. However he doesn't turn me off. The other day he told me that he loves the person he knows so far. And now before he ends the phone call he tells me he loves me. I am sensible enough to know that it is primarily because he is in the DESERT! He comes home for good next week and wants so see me immediately. I know I don't love him...but I am certainly more attracted to him than I allow myself in online courtships. More so then I am prior to meeting someone face to face. What do you think the deal is with him? I should I handle this?

Thanks!

Jodie

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 10-07-2004 - 3:39pm
Jodie...

Pianoguy thinks that any man who is serving his country likes the security of knowing there's a girl waiting for him when he returns home. Your military correspondent overseas is no expection.

But what you see on the computer screen and hear over the telephone aren't necessarily what you're gonna experience "up close and personal!" So if you are curious about a rendevous with this man, be sure to meet in a very public restaurant for coffee and a chat! But DON'T bring him back to your place!!! There's no telling how many months he has been without a woman's companionship! I'm sure you don't want to risk the possibility of any physical abuse?

Best wishes and warm thoughts...and lotsa luck!

Pianoguy