He wont.....

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Registered: 08-23-2004
He wont.....
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Mon, 09-27-2004 - 8:40pm
answer my calls anymore. We havnt talked since tuesday last week. I called him on thursday night, Firday night, and Sunday morning. He hasnt called me back. I havn't seen him in 3 weeks and at the beginning of the relationship we saw each other at least once a week usually more. He used to call me every day and then about 2 weeks ago he called every once in a while then i started to call him and if he want home he would call me later that day and now he wont answered my calls. He lives a 30 minutes away. maybe he is just busy or maybe he doesn't like me any more or maybe he is staying at his grandma's house cause his biological dad was staying there i dont know how long his dad was there for or he might be working late and didn't want to call late or maybe he didn't get my 3 messages should i be worried i'd really like some advice about this im really upset should i try calling him again if so how many more times?

thanks


Edited 9/27/2004 9:04 pm ET ET by blue1718
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Registered: 06-05-2004
In reply to: blue1718
Mon, 09-27-2004 - 9:19pm
Hi,

Your message sounds so sad. If I were you I wouldn't attempt to call him or any other type of contact anymore. Leave the ball in his court. If and when he is ready to talk to you he will. I am sure he has received your messages and continuing to try to reach him might make him react negatively. I am sorry and I wish you the best. Lucy

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Registered: 12-23-2003
In reply to: blue1718
Mon, 09-27-2004 - 10:14pm

I know it's frustrating and bewildering, but you've reached out to him plenty now.

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Registered: 08-23-2004
In reply to: blue1718
Tue, 09-28-2004 - 5:15pm
How many days should i wait for him to call me and assume that its over. Should It be from the last time i called him or the last time we talked? Thanks for the advice
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Registered: 05-05-2003
In reply to: blue1718
Tue, 09-28-2004 - 7:59pm
If you've called him and he hasn't called you back within a week, and you called again and he still hasn't called, then I would say enough is enough.

You could give yourself closure on this one by calling and leaving him a message saying, "hey, since you haven't called back, I'll take the hint that you're no longer interested- see you around"

Sorry things worked out this way.

Alison

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: blue1718
Tue, 09-28-2004 - 8:09pm
You can safely assume that since it's been a week since you talked, he's no longer interested. Sorry.

Sheri