Hearing from someone after an absence?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2004
Hearing from someone after an absence?
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Wed, 03-10-2004 - 11:09am
What's the longest you've gone without hearing from someone? For example, say someone who was interested in you or you were interested in and maybe contact stopped for some reason? Maybe you had a date with someone that you liked and then didn't hear from them for a long time after that? What reasons were given for the silence and then reestablishing contact? Just curious what peoples experiences have been. I've noticed sometimes in my experience and my girlfriends that men can sometimes go a long time without contact and then try and reestablish contact and I really don't get why they do that.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2004
Sat, 03-13-2004 - 11:49am
LOL, We are talking weeks/monts/year absences not 20 years!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-12-2004
Sat, 03-13-2004 - 11:11pm
I think guys call when they are lonely, they miss having someone around. Well alot of us do that. But it doesn't mean that they necessarily want to be with you, they just miss the contact, the feelings you may have had, and a lot of the time it is just a 'booty call' even if they pretend that it isn't. And the reasons guys leave...found someone else, or discovered you weren't the 'one'.

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