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| Thu, 06-15-2006 - 7:33am |
Ok, in the last month or so, i've had interest from a guy i know through a friend at Uni. He seemed quite keen and exchanged numbers, which gave me the courage to ring him up and ask him out on a date. He agreed and it went really well, we had a great night and arranged to meet up for definate another time. However, because we both had final projects to finish and big exhibitions to set up, it was really difficult to find time and we ended up having to side-line the 'relationship' to finish off work. But when it was all over, i got in touch again and we arranged to meet up on the saturday night, he said he'd ring to sort out times. Saturday came and he never rang, so i left a message then called..no response. I left it at that, and then rang on monday (another night he'd said -yes lets meet up), but i got no answer. I decided to take the hint and left it at that. This was about a week ago, and up until the day before yesterday i had no inclination of getting in touch again. Only, you see, i was in uni (the day before)yesterday and my friend (who introduced me and ian with one another) asked me if i'd spoken to him, i explained he'd been ignoring me so, No. She asked me if i knew he'd broken his phone, and that he'd told her he'd been trying to get in touch with me but had lost my number. I didnt know that, but later on he came running up to me shouting for me to wait, as i was walking off to my car and asked me for my number again. (Yep..im sorry this is so long winded but im not concise lol)..My problem is, i want to ask him out again on saturday - i know he has no credit on his phone so cant get in touch with me..But i dont want to sound like im chasing him too much. He hasnt been in contact with me since he asked for my number again...Im confused and really quite like him, but i dont want to make a fool of myself. So..Anyone want to help? :)

shavybohn...
PG thinks you've done more than your share to get the man interested in you.
If he hasn't got the courtesy to respond to your phone calls, this is an indicator that he'll probably be VERY THOUGHTLESS (OR DISTANT) DURING A DATE!
And who in the world wants to be stuck with someone like this for 4 hours?
Let him do a little work. You've done enough!
Pianoguy
The ball is in his court. He needs to put in some effort or this is going to get very lopsided. Best of luck!
thanks for your responses guys..I have to agree with all of you, that his excuses do seem rather lame - i mean, he could have rang me on his house phone etc..the same thoughts have gone through my own mind; you all just seemed to amplify them.
However, i was stupid and rang him yesterday, JUST TO CHAT..i never mentioned the word date or do you want to meet up. And we had a good conversation, i put the phone down. Ten minutes later he rang me up again and asked if i wanted to do something on monday, i said i couldn;t, he said, well how about tuesday?
Maybe he's shy, i duno..But i've taken heed of what you've all said..I don't want to be putting more effort in than he is! Thanks again x