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| Fri, 02-03-2006 - 10:01pm |
Ok, I need some more advice. There is this guy I am practically in love with.(kinda young for love but that is ok)... Is it ok to be friends with benefits or should I just ask him out? The only thing holding me back from asking him to be my boyfriend is that we are both twins. He is identical and I am fraternal. My younger brother is very protective and the last time I had a good thing going for me he ruined it for me. His younger brother doesn’t really care that we like each other. Should I just keep this good thing I have now hidden for a while longer or should I risk looking it.
~GG1414~

I think it is very important for you to be clear, honest and reasonable with your wants, needs and expectations. Once you understand these for yourself, then share them with him in a clear and direct manner. There is zero value in a "beat-around-the-bush" method. Men want to know what you want, need and expect in clear terms. That way, once we know these things we can make an informed decision as to what we can do and where there may need to be a compromise.
So, what do you really want, need and expect?
Answer me this--what