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Registered: 08-09-2005
help
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Tue, 08-09-2005 - 12:30pm
Ok...I don't know how to act, Or where to start.... well I met my bosses best friend when we went to a seminar last year great guy help me with my bags on the plane. Well he always calls here for my boss but when I answer the phone we flirt back and forth pick on each other blah blah blah...well two weeks ago he asked me out to dinner I was shocked not only is he older than me but is my bosses friend well I go and it's a "ok" date it was just like all our phone conversations...well I wasn't going to tell my boss on Monday what I did over the weekend But my best friend told her boss (our bosses are all friends) SO I told Bob the guy I went on a date with that I told her and he said well I wasn't going to say anything to Dirk my boss. Well when Monday rolls around the whole office know.... whatever I get teased a bit but nothing more. Well bob said to my boss that we just went out as friends. Ever since my date I have been crushing on hardcore him and don't know what to say when he calls he hasn't asked me out again and I don't know if I should ask him what he is doing one night. I WOULD LOVE TO get to know him better but it’s all so odd and I am SUPER SHY!!!!!!! And he is older and divorced. Can someone help me.please thank you =)
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2003
In reply to: chanel_maria
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 8:22pm
The best advice --- just keep being yourself and don't worry about the butterflies :-)
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: chanel_maria
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 10:58am

chanel maria...

PG says DO NOT CALL BOB! No matter how tempted you are to do so!

It's really UP TO BOB to make the next move! He has already indicated that the two of you "went out as friends"...and this may be as far as he wants to take things?

Since you work in an office where there's a UNIVERSAL PARTY-LINE (aka everybody gossips about everybody else)....you can expect more of the same if BOB decides to date you a 2nd or 3rd time.

Pianoguy