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| Fri, 04-09-2004 - 11:32am |
I've been dating this guy for a couple of years now. We knew each other a long time ago and he liked me then but I felt like he was more like just a friend. Since we met up again, I became attracted to him. We started dating and moved in together a year later. Now I don't feel as attracted to him as I used to. A big problem is that I lost a job and am having a hard time finding a new one. He says he doesn't understand why because it was so easy for him to find his job (several years ago!). I tell him that things are different now and it's getting difficult for a lot of people to find a job. He shows me budgets letting me know how much my unemployment has cost us which makes me feel even more guilty and desperate. I'm really trying but I don't think he believes me. Sometimes he gets angry with me for not having a job yet but I don't know what else I can do. His attitude upsets me and that, in turn, probably affects my attitude when it comes to job hunting. I've told him that I don't appreciate the way he's been acting but it doesn't seem to do any good. What should I do?

Oh, my gosh!