HELP!!!! a guy with a rule
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HELP!!!! a guy with a rule
| Tue, 10-24-2006 - 11:33pm |
So i met this guy back in ending of february.. We been on and off talking never really moved to dating.. So he has a rule.. before it becomes and offical relationship in his mind he needs to sleep with them...He knows I am a virgin and that Ineed some commitment before that happens.. So its been 9 months I have known him and still havent given it up and he is still around..He told me that he thinks we can make it work and he is willing to take it slow.. I am so confused I mean I like him a lot but I cant tell if he is only after me for sex.. How do I tell??? Anyone have any kind of advice and if he is only after sex do u think he would still be around after 9 mos....I have thought about sleeping with him but when the issue comes up I get way too nervous because I dont know what to do..and dont want him to not enjoy it..I am just afraid I will be bad at it and he wont like that...

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This is the most ridiculous "rule" I've ever heard. How can you want to sleep with someone if you haven't been on a date or two with him?
Many years ago, when I was a teenager living in Mexico (and a virgin) a guy I knew tried a similar line with a lot of girls. He would start dating the girl and then accuse her of not being a virgin. (This was a big thing back then in Mexico. Probably still is, for all I know.) So when the girl said that she was indeed a virgin, the guy would ask her to "prove it" by letting him have sex with her. Some girls were stupid enough to "prove it." And, of course, he lost interest in them afterwards. He tried it with me, and of course I laughed at him.
Your friend is a bit more subtle, but not much.
Elsa
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