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help with guys?
| Fri, 04-09-2004 - 12:42am |
I'm a 19 year old college student. I've never had a bf, just wasn't important in high school. But now I would really like that interaction and maybe a relationship. I've never been very good with social situations. My problem is that I really don't know how to go about finding guys that I like and how to talk to them. Not that I am afraid to, I just really don't know how to go about it. I would really appriciate any advice on this subject. Thanks.

I strongly suggest joining co-ed leagues... whether it is soccer, chess, or whatever. Not only will you meet people you have something in common with, but you will meet them in a non-threatening atmosphere where you get to know each other well. Also, you don't have to put any effort into "trying" to meet people at these events. It happens naturally.. "hey teammate :)"
For me, I'm into sports and church. I met my girlfriend at a church event. Very non-threatening.