Help, I am going crazy
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| Tue, 12-05-2006 - 6:45pm |
First things first, I have been knowing this guy for quite sometime.
Well, a couple of years ago I dated a guy that a very good friend of mine dated in high school. She got very mad and so on and so forth. Needless to say, we still don't speak (my friend and I). Well it was not working out with the guy and I and we just lost touch I guess.
He has or should I say was dating this girl for about the last two years and recently they broke up. I just happened to text him to see what was up and he responded and apologized for the past and wanted to make it up to me by taking me out. I agreed and everything was great. We went out and had a great time. Caught up on the past and he promised that he would not hurt me again if I gave him another shot. That was on Saturday. He came over on Sunday and cooked supper for my daughter (10) and I. He came over again on Tuesday and watched a movie with us and then came on Thursday night to visit. Friday morning he left to go hunting and would be back on Sunday. Sunday afternoon after calling and texting with no responses I finally got a response and he said he was talking to his ex and it was not going good and he would talk to me tomorrow.
Finally, on Monday afternoon I get another text that states that he doesn't know what he is going to do because his ex just told him she was pregnant. I told him I understood and that I would be there for him if I needed him. Meanwhile before all this we were talking all the time. Now when I call him he does not answer and when I text him he just responds that he will talk to me tomorrow. I am just confused. I know he needs space because of the information he just received but we were friends before we were dating. I just feel avoided or maybe I should just leave it alone. I don't know what to do. I really thought that we could make it work this time. Maybe his ex said she was pregnant because she found out that he was dating me and wanted him back. I don't know what to do, help!!!!
Edited 12/11/2006 8:16 pm ET by mlvincent26

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Thanks!!!
Okay, this is what is going on now...after a couple days of not talking he calls and is just as nice as pie.
Previously, I had asked him to come with me to my Christmas party for work. He never really answered and then later in a text he asked if I needed an escort to the party and I said sure why not. He also had a party to go to on that night (surprise party for his dad). He came by on the way to his party and visited. He also told me that he was arguing with the ex again because she wanted to go to the party and he said no. Whatever!!! So we decided that I would take my shower and get dressed and then come meet him at his party and we would go to my party. Everything was great, drinking and visiting and just having an all around good time. On our way home, we were going to go sleep at his place. We pull up in the driveway and to our surprise she was parked in the driveway. He was pissed. So I said well lets just go to my place. And we did. This was on Friday. Saturday he left and went home we talked a couple of times by text and that was it and the same thing on Sunday and Monday.
What is the deal? Should I just ask him where we stand or what? Should I just ignore him, no texts, no phone calls, no nothing and see if he calls? Any advice would be great!!!
How did I become so needy and what can I do to fix it?
I have currently found myself sitting by my cell phone waiting for it to ring.
Any advice from all would be greatly appreciated!!
Thanks in advance!
Lock the cell phone in the car and lose yourself in a movie.
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Do you really want to go through this much trouble for a kinda-sorta relationship? If you're ok with having a sometime thing with this man, then I would just let things flow as is. But I think if he were really interested in a relationship, his actions would be showing you that.
I think you deserve better than this...
I agree with you totally but I don't know why I get this way only with him.
The same thing happened last time. I engulfed myself in him and became so needy.
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