Help! I think I blew it

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2004
Help! I think I blew it
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Wed, 07-14-2004 - 5:55pm
Met a great guy Friday , he wanted to see me again, said he would call saturday but never called Sat or Sunday.. We were so connected. I took a risk and got his cell # from his work. I called him, no answer, I did not leave message. He called back and said he was glad I called and explained why he didn't.

HE made plans to see me that night and we went out. Had a great time... Said he wanted to see me again the next day. HE called the next day and said he would be working late but will call at 6pm. He never called I have tried him a few times later that night but you can tell he shutting off his phone everytime he sees my #. And then I called oNCE today.. same thing.

We discussed if he had someone.. he said NO. He kept talking about future things he wanted to do with me... I don't understand ..Help
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-28-2004
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 6:08pm
It seems he's playing games with you.....

The cat and the rat game, or the "I may like you", or "I may not".... do you want to stay this way? Don't phone him, wait for him to call you, and when he does, don't always stay available. Don't forget that daiting is to see how the other person is, and he's showing you that right now.....

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 6:18pm
You could be creeping him out with your constant calling. Let him call you, don't call hiim unless he asks you to. If he says he's going to call, let him. You don't want to come across as a clingy person, but calling him over and over again does send that kind of message. If he doesn't call in a few days, you can either write him off or call once to leave a message saying you "realize he does not have time in his life to be pursuing anything and have a good one."

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