Help!! Im 22 hes nearly 16!!

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Registered: 07-08-2004
Help!! Im 22 hes nearly 16!!
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Thu, 07-08-2004 - 8:59am
I am a 22 female, fairly attractive and Ive always had boyfriends of my own age or older! I recently have met some1 who I was immediately attracted 2 and the feelin was mutual... he is my housemates brother who has been goin out drinkin and clubbin wiv my housemates recently... at first I thought oh my god... I cant even consider it because of his age but weve been gettin on really well he got my email address and mobile number and we txt and talk on msn messanger everyday... and then on Tuesday he split up wiv his girlfriend of 24 who has a child (not his), he had been wiv her for 2years and asked if I would meet him, I said No at first and he was really persistent so I agreed.. we got on really well and now he is sayin how much he likes me, etc and I must admit I like him! Im meetin him again 2nite but I cant tell any1! Am I really wrong? Im torn up because we get on really well he doesnt look or act his age... but hes still only 15!! why... when u finally like some1 r they 2 young? please help!! I cant even talk 2 my friends because they no my housemate and would probably tell him!!
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Thu, 07-08-2004 - 12:11pm
NO NO NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You are borderline on ILLEGAL here!!! You do not need to be involved with a kid. There is too much difference in age. You were graduating high school when he was still in grade school. He was in diapers when you were going through puberty. You are only caught up in it and you need to walk away and shake your head. He's a little kid and you are an adult.

NO NO NO!!!!!!!

Probably NOT what you want to hear, but it's for the best.

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Registered: 07-01-2003
Thu, 07-08-2004 - 12:49pm
Something about the OPs post doesn't make sense. Do the calculation. She's trying to say that when her BF was only 13 he was involved with a 22 year old woman with a child?!?!?!??! COME ON!! This just does not make sense. I also have to question the maturity level that we are dealing with here. I don't know many 22 year old women that want to date 15 year old BOYS. And without a doubt the moment there is any kind of sexual interaction - JAIL TIME is possible if the responsible parents find out about this!
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Thu, 07-08-2004 - 1:33pm
Tracy, I know, seems odd. I don't care how *mature* this guy is, he's still jailbait. In Canada you cannot be with someone 15 if you are more than TWO YEARS OLDER than them. And there's different rules for those OVER 18! I think the poster is so caught up in the excitement of secrecy that she's not thinking about the excitement of JAIL TIME that could go with it.

Let's just hope that she choses wisely and says no thanks.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 07-08-2004 - 1:45pm
I highly doubt that there is a single thread of truth in the original post. But can you image the outrage if the situation was reversed and a 22 year old man was skirt-chasing a 13 or 15 year old girl. I have a 16 year old daughter and shudder at the thought of a 22 year old man skirt-chasing her.
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Registered: 04-19-2004
Thu, 07-08-2004 - 2:03pm
ITA