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| Mon, 12-20-2004 - 4:05pm |
Ok, I will take a minute to fill you in on my situation. Recently, my boyfriend of 4 years and I broke up. About a year ago, we purchased a home together and things were going fine until one day I received a strange phone call. It was a girl who said she had gotten her cell phone bill which was like 45 pages long, and my phone number was listed on it quite a bit. Well, I didn't know this girl and my boyfriend and I lived in the house alone. After talking with this girl for a while, we started to put the pieces together. He had been making phone calls to this telephone dating service while using my phone and was going under an assumed name. Anyway, while doing all of this I guess he met her and she gave him her cell phone number. They had planned to meet in person on several occasions and he would always call and cancel on her at the last minute, except for one time. She says they didn't have sex, but came very close. I was devistated. On top of all of that, when I finally received my phone bill, it was for almost $700. I also received a letter from my bank stating that I had bounced a check a short time after that. He had stolen checks from me and forged my name. Since finding out all of this I have kicked him out of the house and he has signed his rights over to me. We talk on occasion and this has been the most difficult situation I have ever been in. I still really care about him and am still so disappointed that all of our dreams had been crushed at once. I never saw it coming. Anyway, this past weekend he stopped by the house and was very upset. He was crying and kept apologizing to me and was saying all of these things that in a way I wanted to hear. We were hugging and we were both crying and one thing led to another in the heat of the moment. We wound up having sex, which I know was a big mistake. I think he now thinks that we are going to continue to work things out, but I am not so sure. I don't think I will ever be able to trust him again, and I know that I won't be able to just forget about this whole thing. He says he is willing to do whatever it takes, but can I really believe him? I can't talk to my friends or family about this, because they will all be really upset with me. What do I do?

He cheated on you and stole from you.
I wouldn't give him a second chance at all.