help me figure this guy out
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| Wed, 09-21-2005 - 10:22am |
Okay bachelor #1 canceled our date #4 last Saturday b/c he couldn't get a babysitter. Not a problem, except he waited until 6 pm to cancel. Now he has asked me out for lunch today... I have received a few emails from him the last two days and they are very friendly and normal sounding, but I have not had any confirmation about lunch today at it is 9:50am... granted I know he can still call me, but I am getting really irritated and I need to set this guy straight. Everything was going very well these last few weeks and now all of a sudden he is acting like .... I don't even know.
Am I being unreasonable. And I need some advise, IF we have lunch today I really want to take the opportunity and set this guy straightm, but I don't want to come across harsh or b!tchy.... How does this sound?
"D- , I need to share something with you. I am usually straight forward and don't like to beat around the bush, but something is bothering me and I don't want to come across high maintenance or pushy, but I like you, I am attracted to you, you have a lot of qualities that I am looking for in a man, but I'm concerned about how little we communicate about planned meetings. Whether you are aware of it or not, I have been left hanging on more than one occasion and I don't know what to make of that. Do you think we can communicate a little bit better about these planned meetings?"
I don't know, help!!!

How about this:
""D- Whether you are aware of it or not, I have been left hanging on more than one occasion and I don't know what to make of that. I would appreciate it if you would give me much greater advance notice when either confirming a date or cancelling a date so that I can schedule other activities"
All women worth their salt are high-maintenance.