Help me gain some perspective...
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Help me gain some perspective...
| Sun, 05-30-2004 - 1:07pm |
I need some insight into dating. I've never been a big dater. If it comes up, I definitely do it but usually I am busy with work and school and such. In the past, I have been fortunate to date a few men, find one I truly liked and continue on to have a relationship with him.
It's been about 3 years now since my last relationship. I've dated and met many men that did want to start something more but my interest level hasn't been so great as to want that with them. I guess I'm getting a tad concerned as to whether or not I've become completely jaded. I would like to be in a committed relationship, would like to find a man I am compatible with but am afraid I've become too critical.
How do you know the difference between not meeting a person who would be compatible with you in a relationship as opposed to being too critical about the people you are meeting?
Any insights are welcome...

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If you do have a wall because of past hurts, that's not going to come down without you consciously working on taking it down, and generally that means working with a counselor (few people have the self-awareness and resources to do it themselves).
Sheri
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