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| Mon, 07-12-2004 - 1:22am |
Okay I'm diggin' this guy and I think he is into me also.The catcher is he is my neighor.We chill out sometimes together and talk about things.A couple of weeks ago we decided to have sex and that did not change anything between us. I really want more than just sex. I want to get to know him more and have a relationship.I'm really not the type of person who just has sex with no strings attached.I really care for this guy and there is an age difference of a few years. He is not old dont get me wrong.What do you all think about people dating people with an age difference?And I'm shy.So how do I go about telling him I want more than what we have going on without sounding too pushy or mushy?
Edited 7/12/2004 9:51 am ET ET by bluidqtpie
Edited 7/12/2004 9:51 am ET ET by bluidqtpie

So go and talk with him, tell him that although the sex was fun, you realized that you wanted more from him and would like to start dating him. If he's ok with that, then great, if he says no, you can learn from it and move on.
Remember, it's harder to ask for something more when you offer something less.