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|Mon, 02-10-2014 - 8:01pm|
I need help with my situation and I have no one to talk to so I’m hoping to get advice here.
I got divorced nearly 3 years ago. My ex-wife and I have been “dating” for about 2 years now and I live with my parents and our daughter while I’m finishing school and she lives 2 hours away with a daughter of her own and roommates. We had confirmed last year that summer 2015 we’d get married after she finished school. She doesn’t contact me much and I usually touch based with her every week just to try and keep something going. I asked her recently about what she was doing for Valentine’s Day and she didn’t mention anything about me or us in her plans, including wanting to do anything with me or inquiring if I wanted to something with her. We haven’t seen each other since Christmas time and she did nothing for my birthday last fall nor got me anything for Christmas (not even a card). I got her a non-flower Valentine last year but she said she completely forgot about the holiday and I never received anything, not even a belated card. I’m the type of guy who likes to celebrate love and continue making a relationship stronger. Valentine ’s Day is coming up and even though I feel and want to give something to her, but I kind of feel like I’d be wasting my money and I’m not even sure how appreciated an thought or sentiment would be. Most days I feel like I’m single and wonder if I should give up on her and I continuing as a couple and move on with my life?
Thank you to all who take the time to read this and decide to offer any advice, suggestions, and/or help to me.
I appreciate it more than you will ever know.