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HELP need advice ASAP
| Mon, 03-31-2008 - 4:04pm |
Ok, so I have been dating this guy for two weeks. He came over for dinner last night and we had a great time. When he leaft, he spotted my vacation picture form 5 weeks ago in Jamaica and there are several of me and a guy I meet there, we are kissing in the pictures. He asked me about it and told him that he is a Jamacian guy I meet there. Normally, he texts me in the morning to tel me to have a nice day. Today he did not, so I texted him at lunch and he replies that he is "concerned about the Jamaican guy and that we would talk abut it tonight. WTF???? This was before I KNEW him. What the hell am I suppose to say to him when he calls me????

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That is bizarre.
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You didnt mention it in your post, but were the pictures of you and this Jamaican guy displayed in a picture frame?
Maybe he has a thing about people doing quick hook ups and he just wants to
It depends on what he asks/says when he calls.
Well, that's his perogative, if he doesn't want to continue to see you--I'm not sure I'd want to date someone who wasn't looking to be exclusive after dating for a few months, either (in fact I'm in that situation now and I'm leaning towards not seeing the guy again because we're not on the same page with what we want in that regard).
But you were honest with him and that's all you can do.
Sheri
Obviously the guy had feelings for you already and that's why the pictures hurt him.
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