Help needed!

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Help needed!
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Tue, 10-19-2004 - 1:04pm
I have been dating a guy who, for several reasons, I do not wish to see anymore. I have to break things off with him, but I am totally agonizing over it.

How does this sound: "You're a great guy, and I've enjoyed the time I've spent with you, but something just doesn't feel right."

Anything to add? Change? I HATE this!!!





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Registered: 10-04-2004
Tue, 10-19-2004 - 1:25pm
How about something more like, you're a great guy, but I just don't think we're compatible?

How long have you guys been dating?

-Nikki
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Registered: 07-21-2004
Tue, 10-19-2004 - 1:43pm
The consensus is that I should say "I don't think we're compatible", so I will. But how do I respond if he says "But, why?"

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Registered: 12-23-2003
Tue, 10-19-2004 - 8:24pm

I know me and I would be more direct. I would tell him that you think he's a great guy, but you don't feel the right chemistry.

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