Help needed from all desperately!!!

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Registered: 12-01-2003
Help needed from all desperately!!!
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Fri, 09-16-2005 - 12:08pm
hello, i'm back with another problem. my b/f whom i've been dating for a year always turns me down when i'm in the mood. he only wants sex when he is in the mood. i know he is one who can be adventerous in the bedroom, and he is a passionate lover. i am unsure if the reply to his question has anything to do with this, i have asked him and he says it doesn't. i don't know if you recall, but he asked me the first time we had sex who was bigger he or my ex. i thinking it was just going to be a one nighter said my ex. i know that was stupid and i should have spared his feeling's. but each time we have sex i praise him in every aspect, i have told him he is the best i've had (which is true) and always give him compliments. i have a very high sex drive so i'd like to have sex with him
at least 4 times a week. i have worn sexy lingerie many times trying to get him in the mood but he just says he is tired, or just wants to relax. he does watch porno movies and takes care of himself most of the time, and he even does that in the shower. i have even found out he has been on those sex sites before, and he had put in "fictious info." in there. being turned down by my b/f, who says he loves me, makes me feel ugly and it's embarrassing! i'm lucky if we have sex 3 times a month. any tips to really, really get him in the mood? some have even questioned his sexuality, if he is gay or bi, but he has constantly said that he would never do that. i'm at a loss here, any suggestions or advice?

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Registered: 12-01-2003
Wed, 09-21-2005 - 8:56am
it is so hard once you have already fallen in love. my gut tells me to move out and get a place of my own, and that he may never change. thank you all for the advice.

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