HELP NEEDED ASAP

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
HELP NEEDED ASAP
3
Fri, 04-09-2004 - 8:54am
I have an enormous problem and very little time to try and fix it.

Last night i made out with a guy other than my boyfriend. it was just a meaningless kiss- i dont like him or anything but i dont know what to do. It was just spur-of-the-moment and i regert it sooooo much. My boyfriend kissed another girl a long time ago and i never stopped bugging him about it. and now here i did it. i know how bad it hurts to hear about it - but i also know i need to tell him. should i tell him it was a little goodbye kiss or tell him the truth- that we made out?? PLEASE! I have probably 2 hours before i see him so ANY help would be great. thank you so much.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
Fri, 04-09-2004 - 9:14am
the other thing is - should i wait until he comes over or should i tell him on the phone? i think if he's over we'd be forced to talk about it and maybe get it solved, where if it was on the phone - he'd hang up and wouldnt answer my calls. but what do you guys think would be best?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-07-2004
Fri, 04-09-2004 - 9:32am
NEVER OVER THE PHONE!... If you're really willing to tell him, don't rush it, perhaps your relationship depends on this conversation, think about it and then tell him that you need to speak about something... Just make sure you use the right words and be honest...

Good Luck...
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-05-2004
Fri, 04-09-2004 - 9:40am
You have to tell him the truth. It's that simple.

You will feel better for doing so.

Look at it this way, you both are now on equal ground. You both made a mistake. Move on from it.

Good luck.