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HELP w ex
| Thu, 06-24-2004 - 2:18pm |
i Have know idea what to do, i posted here b4, to make a long story short, ive been with my bf alittle over a yr.. very much in love.. his stbx had a stroke, he started having "what if feelings" when she got out and recovered, he told me he needed to finally have a ending w his marriage, they tried for 2 wks 2 see if it was really over, both of the conclusions were they would divorce next month they both have clarity and closure on there marriage now, hes says he is now ready to give me 100% the problem is he stills wants to remain friends with her, i dont agree with this, i think talking about the kids, the house and the divorce is all that needs 2 b talked about due to all the things he has put me through with this women. He says if she needs to tell him something she something about anything feel free to call him. I cant understnad this. My point is you have me to talk to and need to talk to her about nothing besides the important stuff. Am i wrong?

Pianoguy doesn't want to pick on you...but your sentences are MUCH TOO LONG. Try using a few periods next time you post, okay?
Obviously the stbx is on your b/f's mind...and unfortunately...she'll continue to be on his mind until she has completely healed! Since his concern is making YOU uncomfortable, why not take a break from each other for 30 days? That will give him time to think whether YOU or the STBX is more important?
Pianoguy