Help! What is he thinking?

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Registered: 04-03-2006
Help! What is he thinking?
Mon, 04-03-2006 - 11:31am

Everyone has been trying to hook up my friends room mate and I for the last two months. I briefly dated a friend of theirs a couple of weeks ago but that ended within a week due to things that my friend and his room mate told me about him.

I had been hanging out a lot of the two guys and last friday the three of us went to a bar and the room mate and I ended up kissing at the end of the night. We both had cut ourselves off so we wouldn't be "trashed". Anyways, we ended up going back to their house and made out for awhile and fell asleep in his bed. He was all cuddly sleeping with his arm around me and when he got for a minute and came back, he put his arm around me again and fell back to sleep.

When we got up in the morning, things were kind of ackward, we talked but not about what had happened. When he drove me home I gave him a quick kiss.

Later that evening I was hanging out with my friend and a couple of other people and he came home and basically the whole night we barely spoke. When he left the pool hall we all ended up at he just said maybe I'll see you next weekend.

Now he did leave for school for 2 months in another city (only 2hrs away) on the Monday after the kissing on Friday.

My question is, why would he kiss me and sleep with his arm around me if he was just going to ignore me the next day?