HELP:Guy shows up at 2.30am, leaves note
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| Wed, 09-08-2004 - 12:37pm |
I posted a few weeks back about a guy I met in a bar - we hit it off and he called me all week - we went out, and we did spend the night together. I didn't regret it, I thought he was a decent guy though a bit odd - and he said he'd call me... I never heard from him. I left one voice mail and one text message over the next week but he didn't reply. 12 days passed, and last night I was awoken in the middle of the night by 3 phone calls. It was him. He was actually sitting in his car in my driveway calling me on his cell phone! He didn't admit he was sitting there, but was fishing around to 'stop by'.. saying he had been out of town and just getting back... it's on the way past my house, blah blah. I pretended not to know he was in my driveway by playing dumb.. told him I had to go back to sleep because I'm working the next day (tuesday night!!) and then my doobell rang about 10 times.. I then heard a car drive away. I was really scared.
The next morning when i went outside I found a note he left on the door saying he stopped by to say hi...
Should I call this guy and express my dislike for what he did last night and clarify if I might have given him the wrong idea? I'm sure he was looking for a booty call but I don't want this to happen again. It was so inappropriate.

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And really, your first signal that he's not a sensitive guy would be a 2:30 am booty call followed by a series of knocking on your door. Not sending flowers after this event is more of a signal that he doesn't even think what he did is wrong.
Personally, this guy sounds scary.
SHEESH!!
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