help....why cant he sustain an erection

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Registered: 06-04-2005
help....why cant he sustain an erection
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Sun, 02-12-2006 - 6:36pm
Im 25 and dating a 40 yr old man. Our relationship is near perfect so far...but there is one problem thats bothering me..he cant seem to keep an erection.
He`ll have one and then it seems when we try to have sex it will soften, after stimulating him the erection will return but go down again. It bothers me because I am worried that Im not turning himon enough for him to sustain it..anyone with any insight will greatly appreciated...
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Registered: 03-31-2003
Sat, 02-18-2006 - 10:39pm
That's something only a doctor could answer. My guess it that it's some kind of circulatory problem or stress. High blood pressure and/or diabetes is also supposed to be a possible cause. In any event, the only thing that can be done is for him to get to a doctor.
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Sun, 02-19-2006 - 12:37am

Sweethart,


I agree that it's probably something physical with him, not that you're not turning him on enough.

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