He's a bad kisser
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He's a bad kisser
| Mon, 07-09-2007 - 7:27pm |
I need some advice. I just started dating a guy, and we've clicked really well so far, at least as far as personalities. But as it turns out, he's a bad kisser. Just sloppy, all over the place--no fun to kiss at all. If I'm going to keep kissing him, I want him to get better at it, which will probably require telling him that I don't like the way he kisses. My problem is--how do I tell him? I don't want to destroy his confidence, but I need to get the point across. Has anyone else dealt with this already? Any words of wisdom would be great. Thanks!!

Tough one. You could try to turn it around and say that you know that everyone kisses differently...and then show him how you like to be kissed. Express to him that kissing this way turns you on.
When you say "sloppy" and "all over the place" what does that mean?
My second ex husband started out as a good kisser and by the time we divorced he turned into a horrible kisser --- it was so bad that I had to pull away and yell "yuck" because he shoved his tongue in my mouth and would not move it around or take it out. It just stayed shoved in my mouth. It didn't help that he did that during sex too. He had so much animosity in him about life that even when I said "yuck" it didn't even phase him - like he was on a mission. His mission is about to land him in jail,hehe.
I think he did all of the things he did to purposely gross me out so I would want a divorce sooner than later. He made sure to eat some ungodly combination of food and when I would enter our bed to go to sleep...he'd let the gas rip. He didn't do this for the first 5 years we were together so he had to add something to the broccoli and beer he devoured everyday. He also stopped brushing his teeth before bed and only brushed for less than 30 seconds in the morning. In addition, he stopped wearing his nice shorts to bed and started wearing his worn out jockeys and undershirts that had holes in them.