He's Dishonest-He has a baby on the way

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Registered: 11-07-2004
He's Dishonest-He has a baby on the way
Sun, 11-07-2004 - 11:39pm
I am in a relationship with my best friend. He and I have been on and off for so many years, but are able to remain very good friends. Earlier this year he went back home (Jamaica) to visit family and friends. At that time we were off again. Anyway, he was in Jamaica and I was here in the sates. He would call me every week to ask how I'm doing and let me know how things back home were going. He returned back to the states 3 months later. At that time we were on again, rekindling our romance. One day we had a discussion about what happened in those three months that we were apart. I told him about the men I dated and who I have had intimate encounters with. He told me that he and his ex-girlfriend in Jamaics became romantically involved. I was'nt very mad because he and I were'nt together at that time, plus she's across land and sea. Well, he and I have been back together for 4 months and today a secret came out. The secret was that his ex-girlfriend back home is pregnant with his baby and she's due next month. I confronted him about it and he told me that he was unsure that the baby was his, but there is a possibility it is. I got very upset because he was'nt honest with me and he hurt me. I don't know what to do now.