He's hot one minute, gone the next.

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Registered: 10-04-2004
He's hot one minute, gone the next.
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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 2:08am
A guy I've dated for a short time (maybe 5 dates) disappears for three weeks...no calls, no emails...then turns up on the web with a long, sweet apology note for being out of touch. I really like him, (and he seemed really hot for me)....would like to take it further. But I'm freaked by his disappearance. One time earlier, he went to Florida for a week, and same thing, no contact at all. Can I trust him going forward? Should I be smart about this and blow him off?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 5:22pm
roxie256...

A man who is MIA (Missing In Action) is usually find "action" somewhere (and with someone) else. Does this answer your last question?

Pianoguy

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 10:02pm
Well you haven't been dating him long so he doesn't owe you a ton of explanations. But certainly before you start seeing him in earnest you need to say that you're a little wary about taking things further. You like him and realize it's early days but want to feel that if things do become more serious he wouldn't pull a disappearing act.

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