hes not secure in relationship

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Registered: 07-25-2006
hes not secure in relationship
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Fri, 10-06-2006 - 9:39am
Ive been dating this guy for almost 3 months now....Im finding out that he is very insecure in our relationship. In a recent conversation he has said that he doesn't like dating "good looking" girls cause he's always wondering when the relationship will end....I guess cause other guys are always checking me out. I really don't know how to get past this...I've done everything I could to show him that I only want him and nobody else....please help!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 10-06-2006 - 11:55am

It's not your issue to resolve. He needs to deal with it, by getting counseling if that's what it takes.

Sheri

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Fri, 10-06-2006 - 11:58am
Well, if he doesn't like dating you because he's that insecure, there's nothing you can do about it. You two should probably stop dating. He should find someone he considers less attractive so he isn't so intimidated, and you should find someone more confident. I would think it would be extremely frustrating to be in a relationship with someone who's always worried that it's going to end.