Hey spice.man

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Registered: 08-18-2004
Hey spice.man
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Thu, 08-19-2004 - 12:17pm
Thank you for your advice from (2 years, baby, no ring). He was reluctant at first to answer those questions, but he agreed to do so.
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In reply to: babymaier
Thu, 08-19-2004 - 12:27pm
You're welcome Babymaier. I expected that he would be reluctant and that he will need to think about his answers. Don't push too hard for an immediate answer as these are very critical questions in his life's agenda. Check back with him in a week. Please let us know how it goes.

You also need to think about your answers and be 100% willing to share them with him. My belief is that any critical question you ask of a partner you must also be prepared to answer. Its a fundamental building block to have an equal partner and equality based relationship.

Best wishes,

Spice

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Registered: 08-18-2004
In reply to: babymaier
Thu, 08-19-2004 - 12:37pm
You're right. I am working on my answers already, and will take me at least a few days to finish, it does take a lot of thought.

I'll let you know how it goes

Thanks again

Tina