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| Thu, 11-11-2004 - 6:56pm |
Although my profile says I'm a male I'm a girl. I just wanted to have my quizz questions directed toward a man because I am a lesbian. Now, on to more pressing matters. My girlfriend just recently broke up with me because she told me that I do not appreciate her and that she is not in love with me anymore because we fight so much. I amdit that we have communication problems, but I had been angry because she was going out alot and coming home too tired to talk to me on the phone. What pushed us both over the edge was on her part that we were arguing on her birthday on Friday Nov. 6 and on my part that she didnt talk to me after 1230 on Friday night, another time she was too tired to talk to me after going out. FYI we are in a long distance relationship though it didnt start that way. We both live in philly but she is in Arizona for grad school for 2 years getting her masters in Physics/Astronomy. I am finishing my bacherlor's in Psychology. She has a new group of friends and there is one particular person who she hangs out with alot that I had a problem with. She is 31 and has her own house and car, niether of which I have, hence why I feel threatened. I am 24 trying to finish school and my girlfriend turned 22. She insists that they are good friends and that although we are broken up she will not let anything happen between them because she is still upset about us. She also told me she cried herself to sleep one night and held the teddy bear I got her for Valentine's Day last year and stared at the phone all night. I really still love her and I still want to be with her. My question to you is, is there any chance for us to be together again?

I really think that you guys are having a hard time because you just moved apart. I really think that she still loves you...and i think you need to have a serious talk and clear your insecurities. you should tell her how you feel about this other girl in her life. i dont think it is anything to worry about. i personally think that you both are having a hard time. she is trying to adjust to a new setting and make new friends. u are trying to accept her doing this. however, you are not going through emotions like she is. being in a new place and not knowing anybody. she goes out all the time because she wants to fit in. maybe try finding some new things to do in your life. i think that would help. i think there needs to be compromise on both sides here. she needs to see that she can live a new life and have you in it. maybe have a nice long talk and arrange to go over there for a weekend? that way you can be a part of her new life. there is nothing to fear. true love will keep you together. all the best...