Hidden meaning

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-20-2004
Hidden meaning
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Tue, 08-16-2005 - 11:06am
this morning i called my sweetie to say that i've been thinking about him and i miss him. while these feelings are valid; truth be told i also want to have se* w/him but just didn't want to say it so bluntly. i often heard that sometimes its just better to say what's on your mind and then let whatever happens-happen. but i'm the type of person that beats around the bush alot and sometimes it takes me longer to speak my mind. we didn't end the conversation on a good note per say, so i'm not sure what my next step should be or if there should be a next step. what do you suppose i do?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 08-16-2005 - 7:35pm

iejones6302...

Pianoguy read your post and got "a wicked little smile on his face!" But only for a moment because he doesn't want his ivillage friends to get the wrong idea about him!

Rather than discuss your "sexual desires" over the telephone....why not set up a mystery dinner date with the man? Tell him to choose a suitable wine to go with whatever you plan to prepare as a main course...and give him a date and time to show up! Assuming the wine he chooses "mellows the 2 of you out"----you can give him a choice of a dessert: VANILLA ICE CREAM or something more tasty......YOU!!!!

After that, let him make the next move! But if he chooses the vanilla ice cream instead of you...HE'S AN IDIOT!

Good Luck!

Pianoguy