Highly confused..:(

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2004
Highly confused..:(
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Fri, 08-06-2004 - 2:56pm
So ive been seeing this guy for a month. Then starting a week ago hes been doing this thing where he wants me to call him and get together but he never gets back to me within that day...normally a little later. We went a week without calling so i gave up thinking it was done, he calls me a week later. He went on a trip with a friend who came up to visit him. I wanted to discuss the no calling thing, but not with his friend there thats just rude...

...so i call him during one day and wanted to know whether he wanted to get together or not, very frusteratingly he said yeah, but that he had his friend and he would have to tag along with us becauwe he didnt want to leave him behind. But he told me to call him later and maybe wed go out for drinks,etc. Well i got a call from him, but it was to save his butt cause he locked his keys in the car. So i went out to help, cause im nice like that, then went over to his house since i was so close.

Again when i left he told me to call him when i got off from work..i did...i have yet to hear from him!

Whats going on? any suggestions?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2004
Fri, 08-06-2004 - 3:05pm
I should probably follow my own advice but you need to let this guy call you. Play a little hard to get. Don't run over there just because you haven't seen him for a few days. He knows if he calls you, you will come. Make him work for it. If he will.