hinting?? how do i know??

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2006
hinting?? how do i know??
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Fri, 05-05-2006 - 9:39pm

OK so there is this guy that I hang out with almost EVERYDAY. If we aren't together we are either talking online or on the phone. We go almost EVERYWHERE together too. Most of our friends and even those we dont talk to think we are dating, however we havent even thought about it, OK its more like we havent talked about it. I think about it all the time, but i want him to make the first move.

He does MANY things that a boyfriend would do. He pays for me when we go out sometimes, he brings me dinner at work, in fact he comes in to see me EVERYTIME i am at work. All the people i work with say that we should go out bc he is dropping hints. I dont think he is, bc he is just a nice guy and we have been friends for 9 months.

OK so i guess what i am getting at is...
1- IS he dropping hints??
2- what should i do if he is??

i would LOVE all the help i can get!!!
thanks a bundle!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2003
Fri, 05-05-2006 - 10:45pm
If he wanted to be your BF he's have asked you out to a real date long time ago. It seems that he's comfy just hanging out. He may be paying for you and going to see you at work, but don't confuse that with wanting to be BF material. Hre's not hinting anything but that he enjoys your company. He may be thrilled to have a female friend who is just interested in hanging out. If you like him more than a friend then say so and you ask him out to a real date, see his reaction.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2006
Sat, 05-06-2006 - 10:23am

i just dont want to loose a really good friend or freak him out by saying something. I also dont want to make things weird between us, bc then i think he feels like he has to be careful about what he does around me or something like that. IDK, i just dont want things to be different after saying something to him.

But thank you sooooooo much for your help!!