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his ex was a beauty queen
| Mon, 06-28-2004 - 1:47am |
hi everybody. this is my first message. my boyfriend's ex fiancee was a beauty queen. she was in catalogs. she is very beautiful. i on the other hand am on the other end of the spectrum from her and i am having trouble believing that my boyfriend will be happy with someone thats average. i am very very average. i feel like i have to try to live up to her. he tells me he loves me, but i can't believe that he would go from a tall beautiful model to a plain jane like me. i guess i just need some advice on how to stop worrying about it so much and just let myself be with him and forget about her. can anyone help me?

The first thing you need to realize is that this is YOUR insecurity.
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Oh, another thing my brother says (God, I love having a brother to talk about my guy problems with!!!) is that girls who are really pretty can sometimes be very high maintenance. After a while, high maintenance gets old.
I was just about to tell you this myself. I completely agree. A lot of guys I know only want the "really hot" girls for the sex, but when it comes to relationships it's an entirely different situation. I'm willing to bet that your bf really likes you. If he's such an adorable guy, why not enjoy the situation and see how things play out? He might just be in this for the long run and cares about you and what you have to say, rather than just wanting to sleep with you.