His level of experience vs. mine
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| Sun, 11-11-2007 - 11:41am |
I've been seeing a great guy for the past month or so. I love spending time with him until it comes to being intimate. I'm a very sexual person and all the guys in my past have had lower libidos than I do. Now I wish that was the case with this guy! He's incredibly passionate and truly loves everything intimacy has to offer, it's not just a 15 min. act. So what's my problem? First of all, he's been with quite a few women and I get the feeling some of them have been incredibly adventuresome, not that I'm not but I feel like they were straight out of X rated movies. I suddenly feel inadequate, especially because it takes time for me to feel comfortable with someone to the point that I can let loose a different side of me. I'm also very sensitive to cristicism, so while he may be trying to help, it just discourages me and I get frustrated.
The second problem...I can't go for more than an hour, physically cannot do it. He doesn't get the hint and part of me feels bad because he's enjoying it and I just can't wait for him to be done.
At this point I'm wondering if there's even the possibility for a relationship here. He's very into me and the only thing bothering me is the intimacy - everything else is good! Suddenly in a month I've gone from knowing that I was good and never not pleasing a guy to questioning myself and it's a blow to my usually high self esteem! I'm just not sure what to do.

You said you get the impression that the women he has been with are more adventuresome than you.