How and when to bring this up??

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-28-2003
How and when to bring this up??
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Wed, 06-07-2006 - 8:30am

I've been seeing this guy for a couple weeks and I really like him and I know he likes me. The thing is I've never been in a relationship before and I want to take things slow. Not to slow I just don't want him to think I'm pushing him away b/c I don't want that. How and should I bring up that I've never been in a relationship and that I'm not use to being treated the way he's treating me and that's why I may seem really shocked and almost shy when he does b/c I'm not use to the compliments or someone telling me that they are thinking about me.

Any advice would be appreciated!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
Thu, 06-08-2006 - 9:59am

Ask and ye shall receive.

Your needs call for open and honest communication. I am sure your new boyfriend will appreciate your candor.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 06-11-2006 - 9:20pm
I'm not sure how old you are as that probably factors into how much experience you have with guys. How about him - do you know if he's had a lot of relationships? It's ok to say you like him but want to take things slow, and when it feels comfortable tell him you don't have tons of experience. But just enjoy the compliments - no need to say you're not used to receiving them!
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