how and where do I meet someone
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how and where do I meet someone
| Fri, 08-06-2004 - 1:25am |
Hi there, I am a 43-year-old divorced single mom of a soon to be 15 year old daughter and I am wanting to date, but find it almost impossible where I live. I wouldn't move for that reason alone, and my daughter needs her father who is still an important part of her life. But how do you separate the decent guys from the ones who just want a one night stand and that's all I seem to find. It served it's purpose years ago, but after four years, I want to fall in love again and be happy and share my life with someone. I suffer depression as well, so that doesn't help matters much. I am possibly going to a club with some new people I haven't met and another new friend and I are going to go out and try to have some fun, but not take it too seriously, either.
Anybody have any suggestions. I've tried the supermarket and I can't tell whether a guy is single depending on what he buys, but if I see baby food in the cart, I'm outa there, lol.
Thanks for listening

Bars are a horrible place to meet a guy.
Try the grocery. Starbucks Coffee House! Hotties, business men and bonus $$$.
Start working out, you can always meet a guy, or better yet meet women that will introduce you to a really nice guy.
My sister said I should get all dolled up and go to a REALLY expensvie steak house downtown. She said to sit at the bar and order a drink. She guarentees I will get a date. I haven't tried that yet, but if any of you do I would love to hear how it went.
Hi Pisces,
I'll be 43 next week, and I can certainly relate to what you're experiencing.
Start
The Gym- people DO NOT like to be bothered in the gym. I work out 5 days a week for 1-2.5 hours and I NEVER talk to anyone and NO ONE talks to me. People look at me like i have two heads if I just ask them if they are done with whatever equipment they are using and i need. Futhermore- how horrible does one look at the gym? How are you supposed to pick up guys covered in a layer of sweat, with sweat soaked hair, and wearing elastic waistband shorts that make your ass look huge?
Just hang out in the condom aisle. They come marching by, and you get to see what sort of "protection" they're buying.