how to approach this handsome guy??

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-08-2005
how to approach this handsome guy??
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Tue, 11-08-2005 - 5:46pm
hi everywun
I see this handsome guy at work everyday( but he doesn't seem to even notice me!!) and i am just nuts over him. would i come across as desperate if i make a move??
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Registered: 07-10-1999
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 9:28pm

What have you got to lose if you make a move? Worst case scenerio, he's not interested in you, and you move on. If you never make any move, you won't get him anyway.

Here are a few ideas for getting to know him. You can take from whichever of these are things you're comfortable with.
1. Compliment him on something he's wearing. Then, you can ask him where he bought it, and start up a conversation with him that way.
2. If there's somebody at your office who knows both of you pretty well, you can ask that person to introduce him to you.
3. You can ask him for help with a problem you're having. Or even make up a problem that he might have the answers to.
4. Keep looking at him until he catches you and makes eye contact. If he does, smile at him.
5. If there's a breakroom at work and if you can decide when to take your breaks, you can take your breaks at the same time he does and meet him there.