How to ask if he wants more...
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How to ask if he wants more...
| Thu, 08-12-2004 - 6:08pm |
I recently met a guy in a chatroom and we really hit it off...so much so that he called me and we talked for almost two hours! We met later on, and we ended up fooling around. I don't regret what I did, but we have talked a lot since, and I really think I could like him and am hoping for something more...is it too late for that?
At this point I don't really know if he is interested in me romantically or just sexually. I want him to know I am interested in dating him, but I don't want him to feel like he has to say yes if that isn't how he really feels...is there a no-pressure way to do this?
Edited 8/13/2004 3:42 pm ET ET by squeevil

You can ask him to do something *datey* (as you put it) with you. But don't be surprised if A)he declines or B) the *date* turns into the bed.
If you want to know what his intentions are, ask him straight out. Be honest with how you feel. If you don't want just a bed buddy, tell him so. If he bolts, you can move on and find someone new to connect with. If he doesn't, then take things slow and take the time to get to know him.